No that isn't the name of a new show on Fox. This is the amount of time my ex spent with our daughters this weekend. He brought them back early. Again. I made two promises to myself when I started this blog. One was to never blog when I'm mad. I'll regret what I type later. The second is to not bad mouth the girls' Dad. Though in this case I'm breaking both promises.
I can't take much more. I just plain don't have the money to take him back to court but I'm going to try and figure out how. He hasn't visited with Megan since June. And he brought them back a day early with the pitiful comment, "I thought that was what we were doing." No dude, that is what YOU are doing. I love the fact that he just chooses not to follow the divorce settlement. He cannot handle being a parent. Period. No matter what he tries to claim, he is just not a parent. He doesn't take an interest in anything involving the girls except when he decides to complain about something I do with the girls.
I'm sorry but tonight I'm angry. Really angry. This has nothing to do with me having to spend more time with the girls. I love every minute with the girls. (Unless I'm in the doctor's office or the grocery store with them.) It's the utter lack of respect for our children and for me. He does what he wants when he wants to. I wonder what would happen if I showed up on a Friday evening and told him I had a date and then just left the girls. He would freak. Yet he does this to the girls and I each and every time he has visitation with him.
And dude? This isn't parenting time. This is visitation. You haven't parented these girls in over 7 years. That's been my job. So go home and get your laundry done, or grocery shop, or hang with your girlfriend. I'll treasure our girls and the time I parent them. Because when it comes down to it you haven't ever been a parent to these beautiful young ladies. They will get older and you will be sad and feel sorry for yourself for the time you choose not to be their parent.
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